We say we don't care what others think of us... but, is that really true?
I mean how many times have you been out in public and your best friend as you to do something silly and you would say "NO!! people will laugh at me!" So, yes you care maybe not all the time but, you care.
Why are we so wrapped up in what others think of us?
Well, I believe it has everything to do with US!
We were raised a certain way or was told to sit down when all we wanted to do is dance. Maybe something embarrassing happened to you and everyone laughed. It is in the past and you need to leave it there. Like, fo real!! All of this is called fear. Fear of being laughed at or made fun of is silly. Fear of not fitting in or having a sense of belonging.
We all do silly things all the time. So what if it is in public. Do you really think you are THAT important that people would really care? Maybe change your thought process around it. It is so much work to be a way that you think everyone else wants you to be. In the end your the only unhappy one. What kind of life is that? Not a happy one I can tell you that.
Be HAPPY!! If it makes your Soul happy then that's what you should do. If it puts a smile on YOUR face and you are full of joy then that is where you need to do!!
If people don't make fun of you for dancing then they will find something else to make fun of you for.
When people make fun of you it is only because they are jealous of what you have or how FREE you are living your life. Yep, they want what you have or how you are. They see you happy and care free and want to be that way but, don't really know how to get it so, they make themselves feel better by putting you down. You are living your life to the fullest and they can't or choosing not to. It has nothing to do with you. FOCUS ON YOU!
The quicker you understand that the happier your life will become.
I have been wanting crazy red or purple hair for months now. I have checked out Pintrest and just searched the web for the "perfect" color. Mind you there is no such thing as a "perfect" color. It was just another excuse not to do it. So, I have been putting it off. WHY? because I am almost 47 years old and a 47 year old woman doesn't do that. Who says?
I know right? I have been telling myself this crazy ass story!!
Here I am a grown ass woman and I can do what I want!! Who cares what other people think? Why should I let their childish talking keep me away from my happiness? They are going to talk about me anyway!!
So, now me with beautiful purple hair (even if it is temporary) is HAPPY!!! My heart and Soul feels wonderful. That's what matters the most right? Of course it is!!
Love yourself enough to be "YOU" However that looks for you.
If you love yourself finding people to love you back is easy.
Go do you Boo! Get your purple hair.
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